WHAT SHALL I DO ABOUT MY MAN TROUBLE HELP PLEASE?

I have been with my beloved for 2 as well as a half years, as well as in which time he never had a job,often stayed during my place as well as fundamentally looked after him, as well as all his good income would go upon weed as well as fags, as well as when which ran out he would continually ask me for income [more time to buy weed] as well as never paid me back.
When ever we went out we continually paid, even upon my birthday he has never once brought me a benefaction not even a card, nonetheless we buy him stuff.
Than when we altered in to my unit final year we didnt give him a set of keys as well as stopped observant him as most as well as he would only stay during his dads-again where he freeloads.
Than his fortunes altered as well as he got a job, as well as he altered in to cave as we proposed removing upon better, as well as even spoke about removing a dog together.
THAN when he got paid, he never offering to take me out once, brought himself brand new trainers, garments etc as well as paid me behind only £20 of a income which he owes me!
When he was starting to a unison we even paid for his sheet upon my credit label as he dosent have a bank label as well as he never offering to give me a money-even yet he was working.
Anyway after 2 months he got discharged since he has been to jail as well as it was behind to block one.
And for his birthday he longed for me to buy him a playstation 3!
I told him where to go, as well as he was angry which upon his birthday when we concluded to see him he paid for a motion picture tickets as well as wouldnt stop starting upon about it!
That was a initial time he EVER took me out!
Now hes continually angry which im never around as well as we frequency see him as well as keeps upon during me about vital with me.
Another thing, when 1 his “mates” come out of jail for raping a girl, he would continually do things for him, run around after him as well as outlay all his time with him, yet never do anything for me as well as still ask me for income as well as perplexing to get him in to difficulty as well as try repair him up with girls as well as I’d contend select me or your friends as well as he pronounced his mates.
Now these same”mates” kick him up bad as well as in jeopardy him with a gun as well as unequivocally messed him up, he final we go sanatorium with him, got military station, demeanour after him, we discuss it him we chose these people over me as well as he starts verbally abusing me when we refuse, am we being harsh?
i consider im fit in observant that.
I do adore him, yet a large partial of me is really sour towards him, he tries to have sex with me each time he stops over if we exclude he gets all droll so we feel thankful to nap with him.
im only fed up of him never appriciating me as well as right away 1 my masculine friends i have well known for a year who is additionally in adore with me has asked me to wed him, as well as he continually takes me out never lets me outlay a penny as well as continually takes me selling as well as hes a rich male as well as wants me to live with him in his large stable conversion, even yet we havent slept with him im tempted to be with him.
BUT he is really extremist as well as continually creation extremist comments about black people which creates me worried as my male is black as well as he is really determining as well as really possesive as well as gets sceptical alot as well as when we quarrel he throws it behind in my face “i buy we uggs, buy we this which etc, we never outlay a penny etc” we only dont know what to do, conjunction male knows about a other.

please help!

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